Actually, I figured out what the problem was on the gas leak this morning before work and it's not at all what I thought. My plug setups on the aux tank outlet and stock tank inlet are still holding fine, it's the rubber return line on the stock tank at the top on the rear end of the tank. It has cracked through.
The little bit of gas I left in that tank (just as a last resort if I should run the aux tank dry or something goes wrong with the aux tank) is enough that when I back down our driveway, it sloshes to the back of the tank and comes out the crack.
Easy enough to fix, but I got this

notion to go ahead and do my idea to:
1. Splice a 2-way brass Y-valve into the stock tank return line right at the tank.
2. Run one side of the valve to the tank return line
3. Run the other side of the valve to my spare fuel pump and from there run a "pickup line" with a cutoff valve in it.
This would allow me to fill the stock tank through the spare fuel pump from the pickup line with jerry cans (with two valves between it and the outside world) if I ever wanted to run long distance and use both tanks. Nothing appeared wrong with the stock tank, I just didn't like the uncontrolled setup with the overflow method to fill it from the aux tank
I'll probably whimp out and just replace the cracked line to get it running, but it brought the "long-range" setup thought back to mind.